Happy Mom, Happy Kids

"A Child first teacher it's Mother, so try to be a happy one"

Happy moms, happy kids! You have heard this phrase so many times but didn't feel the depth before. Moms are the unique creation of God who put their child first before every other thing. Every day the mom gives time to the kids and family and does not even care about herself. Deep down, moms think that after the kids, they do not have personal lives and devote their time, happiness, and dreams for the well-being of their loved ones. It is wrong at so many levels because the "Me Time" is necessary for every other human being.

What can a happy mom achieve for kids?

“When mom is happy, kids feel more secure and know they are loved.”

If moms think that they are being selfish and ignoring their kids and families, if they do not give their 100% time, then it is wrong. Every individual deserves to spend part of the day according to their wish and choice. If we talk with the backup of stats, then it has proved that happy moms raise happy and content kids.

According to a based study, overall, 60% reported that they are pleased with their families. But this number dropped down to 55% when their mother wasn't happy in the relationship. The percentage of happy kids grew up to 73% when their moms were delighted. If a mother is happy, she passes through that happiness and positivity to her kid. This is just an example, because we are not going to talk about relationships.

How does a happy mother pass through happiness to her kids?

“Your kids don’t want a perfect mom; they just want a happy one.”

It is one of the most critical questions for mothers who devote their full life to seeing their kids happy. Although, in reality, the mother faces so much struggle, fatigue, tiredness, and pangs to raise the kid. In response, she deserves some Me time to follow her dreams and just for the positivity of mind and stay happy. Here are the following points showing how a mother can pass through that positivity to the child:

Activity for moms

After fulfilling all the responsibilities for a long day and running around, performing the duties of kid's mothers deserve time. If you find free time then get a massage, watch a movie, go for the shopping or daily walk. These things are mandatory to fresh up their minds.

Child’s happiness: As a result of these activities, you return to parenting happily and feel rejuvenated. These are the positive feelings that you pass down to your kids.

Me time

Most of the moms feel that they do not have enough time to spend as free time. So, you do not need to go for shopping or outing in free time, find a time-lapse from the daily routine is enough. Take a window of 30 minutes and drink green tea or do Yoga by finding a quiet part of the house.

Child’s happiness: When you do this, you find your happy place and stay calm and happy. It is the best way to teach your kids time management and tell them how self-care is vital in life.

Set the limits

So, it is crucial for the mommies to stay happy, decrease stress, and increase overall happiness in the home. In daily life stress, you forget to give yourself a much-needed time that isn't good for you. Fear leads to obesity, depression, diabetes, and risk of anxiety. It is good to set the limits for the activities and playdates of your kids.

Child’s happiness: If you do this, you teach your child the discipline in life, and it will eventually take away your stress. If mommy is feeling stressed, then she will ultimately pass down that to her kid.

Crux

From the above conversation, we learned that it is vital for the mommies to learn to prioritize things and kid's activities. Do whatever makes you happy and how you feel so glad. Go for the gym session, movie watch, Yoga class, or start your dream project. You do whatever you want to do because eventually, you will put that energy into your home to make it a happy place. I know you want to see your little heaven a happy place, so do what makes you happy.